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Resolving Disputes: Choosing Collaboration over Conflict

July 15, 2023 Melanie Hawken

by Nicolene Schoeman-Louw

Disputes and conflicts are inevitable in human interaction, often arising in both personal and professional settings. In business, resolving disputes in a timely and amicable manner is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships and fostering long-term success. Traditionally, conflicts have been addressed through the adversarial process of litigation. However, an alternative approach that has gained significant recognition is mediation. In this article, I explore the key differences between resolving a dispute in court versus mediation. I argue that mediation offers a more favourable approach to maintaining good relationships, which is essential in business.

An Adversarial Battle

Litigation is the most familiar and well-established method for resolving disputes. It involves presenting a case to a judge or jury, where legal counsel represents each party and aims to prove their position while discrediting the opposing party's claims. The courtroom is an adversarial setting characterised by rigid rules of evidence and procedure, cross-examinations, and a final judgment imposed by an impartial third party.

  1. Time and Cost: One significant drawback of litigation is the time and cost involved. Legal proceedings can stretch for months or years, leading to substantial expenses for both parties. The formalities, legal paperwork, and extensive discovery processes add to the complexity and duration of the litigation. In contrast, mediation offers a more time-efficient and cost-effective alternative.

  2. Decision-Making Control: Another critical factor in litigation is that the decision-making power rests in the hands of the judge or jury. The outcome of the dispute is determined by a third party who may need help understanding the intricacies of the business relationship or the underlying dynamics. This lack of control can leave both parties dissatisfied, and the ruling may require them to address their interests fully.

A Collaborative Approach

Mediation, on the other hand, is a voluntary and confidential process in which a neutral third party, the mediator, facilitates communication and negotiation between the disputing parties. Mediation encourages collaboration and emphasizes reaching a mutually satisfactory resolution, unlike in the courtroom. Here are some reasons why mediation is particularly beneficial for maintaining good relationships in business:

  1. Preserving Relationships: Unlike litigation, mediation focuses on preserving relationships rather than fostering animosity. Mediators help create a safe environment for open communication, allowing both parties to express their concerns, interests, and perspectives. By working together toward a resolution, mediation helps rebuild trust and encourages a positive future working relationship.

  2. Customised Solutions: Mediation offers greater flexibility and creativity in finding solutions tailored to the parties' specific needs. Rather than adhering strictly to legal precedents or statutes, the mediator assists in generating mutually beneficial options that may not be available in a setting. This flexibility allows win-win outcomes, where both parties feel their interests have been considered and satisfied.

  3. Confidentiality: Confidentiality is a fundamental principle of mediation. Unlike proceedings, which are typically open to the public, mediation allows for private discussions and protects sensitive business information from public disclosure. This confidentiality fosters an environment of trust and encourages parties to share candidly without fear of damaging their reputation.

Conclusion

When it comes to resolving disputes in business, maintaining good relationships is paramount. While litigation has its place in specific scenarios, mediation offers a more constructive and relationship-focused approach. By choosing mediation, businesses can save time and costs, retain decision-making control, and foster a collaborative environment that encourages creative solutions. The ability to preserve relationships, create customized solutions, and ensure confidentiality makes mediation invaluable in maintaining successful business relationships. Embracing mediation as a primary dispute resolution method enables businesses to prioritize their long-term interests, cultivate a positive working environment, and ultimately thrive in today's highly interconnected and competitive marketplace.

Contact an Attorney at SchoemanLaw for assistance and all your contract needs.


Nicolene Schoeman-Louw  founded SchoemanLaw Inc in 2007 in South Africa aged 24, and is now the Managing Director of the firm. She is an admitted Attorney of the High Court of South Africa, Conveyancer, Notary Public and Mediator; with a passion for entrepreneurs and helping them reach their most ambitious goals. She obtained her LLB degree cum laude and successfully completed her LLM degree (dissertation) in commercial law and B-BBEE, both at the University of the Free State. In addition, she obtained her postgraduate diploma in financial planning (CFP) at the University of Stellenbosch. She regularly contributes to various publications and shares her knowledge regularly on various radio stations. Nicolene has enjoyed the confidence of many successful entrepreneurs over the years and continues to do so. As a trusted advisor she has actively contributed to the successes of many businesses, helped and continues to help many entrepreneurs build lasting legacies.

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